One of my daughters was telling the other a story about a woman we met, recently. She was doing her best to describe the woman, and went on and on, describing the way she spoke, what she wore, where she sat, even how many children she had and how old she thought they were. And as I sat there, I waited for the descriptions that never came…
“Heavy. Overweight. Big.”
In her desperate search for a way to describe this woman to her sister, the characteristic that stood out most to me wasn’t even on her radar.
I was reminded today of something Glennon Doyle Melton wrote:
Your body is not your offering. It’s just a really amazing instrument which you can use to create your offering each day. Don’t curse your paintbrush. Don’t sit in a corner wishing you had a different paintbrush. You’re wasting time. You’ve got the one you got. Be grateful, because without it you’d have nothing with which to paint your life’s work. Your life’s work is the love you give and receive– and your body is the instrument you use to accept and offer love on your soul’s behalf. It’s a system.
We are encouraged to obsess over our instrument’s SHAPE, but our body’s shape has no effect on it’s ability to accept and offer love for us. Just none. Maybe we continue to obsess because as long we keep wringing our hands about our paintbrush shape, we don’t have to get to work painting our lives. Stop fretting. The truth is that all paintbrush shapes work just fine -and anybody who tells you different is trying to sell you something. Don’t buy. Just paint.